5.23.2013

look alikes... maybe it's NOT such a bad idea?

I don't know about you but my mom did the look alike thing with my sister and I - A LOT.. she would sew us matching outfits and if we were say, going on a trip anywhere we had to match, out for a special dinner, matching, etc.. you get the picture. We had matching dresses, outfits and also matching swimsuits! (I'll have to find that photo).

From time to time I will make a go at our kids dressing the same, a bit of a challenge with the boy/girl thing but we will go for the check dress, check shirt kind of thing.. So, with this in mind I wanted to share a few things that we have at Nonchalantmom that can give you the look alike thing... just in case you want to make a go of it yourself! (as in MOM - kid)

here to follow our favorite ideas!
lilit chloe kurta
 This is my favorite top of the summer (I know, I know I keep harping on it!) I can tell you like it too.. they are almost sold out.. I have re-ordered and Lilit is going to make a bunch more for me so we will have those asap! So if it's gone.. it should be back soon enough... I love the kurta for kids because it's great for boys and girls! My son loves this shirt - it's his fancy shirt for events and weddings. - find Lilit here

Lucky Fish octopus T
The lucky fish octopus t perhaps??... OBVIOUSLY this is your favorite lucky fish T, there is also a long take dress for ladies!? but this way you can match your little boy too! always great and totally cool for everyone! - find Lucky Fish woman here - find Lucky Fish kids here
Lilit zig zag shirt
This Lilit shirt is a favorite so I got it for kids too and it's such a perfect shirt for both boys, girls AND mom! - find Lilit here

shop Littl by Lilit here at Nonchalantmom
shop Lucky Fish kids here at Nonchalantmom
shop Lucky Fish Woman here at nonchalantmom

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got a lego freak in the family? try Pleygo!


I found this service and it looks fantastic... Pleygo - what a great idea! It's like Netflix for Legos! The whole thing is SO easy it's crazy, sign up for a plan that works for you, there are three so far and your kids can even get the Star Wars Starship on one of the plans!


So here is how it works, choose your plan - they take care of shipping - make your request, make up a wish list of sets your kids would like and then they will be sent to you just like a Netflix movie. What could be easier? My big question was are these things going to be filthy! and the answer is NO, upon return each kit is fully washed and cleaned with non-toxic cleaners (I'm picturing them running through a dishwasher of some kind) and come out 99.9% clean of all residuals, germs and bacteria.

click here to go to their website and learn more



a 'flat white' anybody? - this is for coffee people...


Or maybe it's NOT... because it includes milk, which I suppose for any true coffee freak, this just bastardizes real coffee flavor (well at least that's what I was told by a lot of Italians). My friend Jann (Lucky Fish) taught me this one and it's solved my WHOLE coffee problems and it's also solved my Dave's Coffee addiction (or local coffee shop in Westerly, RI) - which was costing me a bunch of moo-la.. in gas driving there (20 min. each way) and then the $4 coffee EVERY DAY.. adds up man!

But I had a hard time living without their fabulous Latte made with soy milk (NOT vanilla soy Starbucks!!) - which to me tastes almost like coffee with chocolate! hhhmmm... excuse me while I go make myself a cup. I make my own now because Jann taught me how to make a "flat white" which I think is South African but I never asked her, I'm just assuming this (and you know what THAT means.. I could be making an 'ass' of myself!). I'll bet you never read this long to find out what the heck something IS...


So, here we go... make your espresso in whatever thing you like to make it in... I've never found anything better than the cheap and lovely La Cafetiere. Steam your milk in whatever you like to steam milk in (I use soy, but Jann claims milk is better - maybe it's not a 'flat white' unless you use milk HA!) I like to use one of those enameled small pots, I think it's really a butter melter but whatever... fill half your cup with milk and then top up with coffee... and then TASTE the deliciousness!

FLAT WHITE!

now, go make one! (-just to be clear... this is NOT macrobiotic!)

5.20.2013

SALE!

We have a little sale going on for a short time...


Use code: 'hello' and receive 15% off regular price items*
(not included: lucky fish women, wovenplay, and sombrilla by hollie and harry
and not applicable to past orders)

S A L E  ::  S A L E  ::  S A L E

new online magazine: Lille Nord


This new online magazine has a refreshing take on the whole kid-magazine thing. It all seems more simple, easy and fun to make and do things with your kids! And then the whole nordic take, with the focus only on Scandinavian brands, gives us a chance to see some very different collections and designers that have not had press attention before. But I have to say, my favorite section was the kids treats, I have pretty good feeling I will be making ALL of these for my kids... (and I need to get those cute candy sprinkles too!)


you need to click through to the magazine for the full story (and better images!) - click here! These are rice crispy treats with white chocolate and sprinkles and then cake w/sprinkes (just wrapped cuter!!) and then my favorite... drum roll... chocolate dipped bananas with sprinkles!

The world of fashion in Lille Nord is even better.. just simple clothes, what kids wear for summer.. and super cute-ly (I know that's not a real word but it should be!) styled photos! They also go WAY beyond the designed kids room.. how about this: a kids YURT! now that's a GREAT idea! think summers kids sleeping out in the yurt! OKay so theirs is in a HOUSE, but I'm not sure what would fit in ours so I am just going to do it outside! right! super idea!


And lot's of DIY tips that will take you through the summer in a great way, if not through the summer it will get you started. I have found that all you need is to get your kids started... like give them these great home made stamps and they can take that idea a LONG LONG way... more stamps, stamp furniture... you can see where this is going... your kids can keep busy with this DIY idea for weeks!


and take that home made bead necklace to NEW heights, beads, little plastic animals and things.. it's so much fun when you take that easy idea to the next step!

See the whole issue here and look with your kids so they can see the fun that's coming their way!

Lille Nord magazine

5.16.2013

need a nook (not THAT kind...)


When I was little I was the kind of kid that loved to make little cozy nooks everywhere in the house. I made them in my parents closet (you know... that very back corner!), in the basement under the stairs (we called that the 'scary room'), and even in our bathtub (we had one of those weird triangle-y square ones!). It didn't take much, lot's of blankets and pillows and we always had a few sheepskins around (wouldn't be a Scandinavian home without those!).

I know this isn't nesting, but I am sure that some of you could chalk it up to that... but it's more the 'want' for a place to cozy up and get away from things. I love the looks of these nooks and I just thought I would share them with you... in case you have a space in your home that you don't know what to do with, make a NOOK!


maybe not 'technically' a nook... but still... cozy!
needs some pillows
You get the idea... these are all from my pinterest... follow me and I will keep sharing my nooks!

5.15.2013

late greats


I found these guys via FAB.com and thought they were FANTASTIC and had to pass them on to you. It all began when an artist named Chen made a handmade doll for her father-in-law. Now, the series of cuddly cultural heroes features the likes of George Washington, Gandhi, and Susan B. Anthony, and MY personal favorite Picasso and Chanel! — Chen sketches, sews, and stuffs all the dolls herself! These will make amazing gifts for that hard to find a gift for person (even fathers day!?) - she calls them Late Greats (probably the best name ever!)



These snuggly dolls of cultural icons are a blast to collect and give kids a bit of history at the same time! (but, let's be honest here.. you just may love these more than your kids!)

shop Late Greats here

kids favorites!

Favorites for kids are easy to spot, but we are sometimes tripped up by something cooky... This season we had some standout favorites that you seemed to LOVE! I think that Ikat was definitely most loved by all... and then we filled up on dresses by lilit, LOTS this year for boys by Nico Nico and the ever favorite Lucky Fish T! And since it's still early in the year, my kids can't stop wearing the new slim jeans by ESP no1.. my son even rock climbs in his! that's like a commercial for comfort!

tuss - dorthea dress

these nico nico ikat surf shorts are GREAT for boys! (and girls)

nico nico ikat surf dress
makie jasmine puff sleeve dress/tunic
lucky fish pink base ball t w/seahorses and sunprint dots! (everything but the kitchen sink! - neon, sun print, seahorses...!)
lucky fish neon w/crazy squirrel
To be perfectly honest, there are SO many favorites in the Lucky Fish t's.... obviously you love octopuses, snakes, trophies and anything with moons and stars! They are ALL our favorites and my kids LIVE in these all summer long, I can always count on them for my kids FAVORITES!

And while Wovenplay is always a favorite.. it JUST arrived... I know you LOVE the darger dress so I will say that for now but I forecast the LOLA suit in the mint green stripe... mmmmm LOVE!

wovenplay darger dress
wovenplay lola suit
we are living right now in ESP no1 jeans both boys and girls...

esp no 1 jeans and t's - softness is key!

shoppers favorites - WOMEN

It's about at this point in the season when we know what your favorites are... we are sometimes surprised, but we get really excited when we made the right decisions (which means that we have a bit extra of the items we know you will love!). Right now it's anything Pipsqueak Chapeau, Lucky Fish and Lilit...

pipsqueak chapeau sleeveless shirt
pipsqueak chapeau swallow dress
lucky fish Thorns drape top
lucky fish zig zag T
lilit zig zag top

lilit silver stripe kurta
In fact, while my sister was traveling in Turkey these last few weeks she used the pipsqueak chapeau collection for her travels and it was PERFECT! (with the addition of a Lem Lem scarf!) She has been sending me photos along the way (gotta love technology!) and it looks like an amazing trip... and she looks great, always!

at Hierapolis - gorgeous!
For me, that's the sign of great summer clothes, you always need clothes that travel for the summertime because you never know where you are going to end up! California, the Hamptons... or Turkey!

She also traveled with this bag: (by Clare Vivier) MY favorite!

clare vivier cartablle


Happy summer travels!

5.10.2013

organic avenue :: mothers day cleanse


I am a HUGE fan of Organic Avenue, I am so lucky that a friend I stay with in NYC lives upstairs from one of their shops... my favorites are: latte, almond milk, tumeric tonic, green juice.. and just about ANY of them! They are all so fresh and delicious (and I LOve their glass bottles and use them for everything in the house from flowers to my water daily water bottle). I was so pleased to see that they have done a beautiful juice cleanse for mothers day called: Calm... (nice name) and it has a special deal starting at $180 for a three day cleanse.

click here for the full deal - unfortunately it's only available to New Yorkers... :( but if you are driving through you can get one of their cool packs filled with the cleanse to take home!

happy cleansing!
keep CALM and carry on....

Shocked :: Patricia Volk's Momoir about Beauty and it's Beholders


I love memoirs so I am always keeping my eyes open for a new one, and this looks great. On Fresh Air Terry Gross has a conversation with Patricia Volk that has a feeling of being a bit voyeuristic and that can be a good thing in terms of a memoir. I love how she remembers her mother, the details, the look and even the smell. This is a great interview for mothers day, it gives you thoughts of childhood and even how your children will remember YOU.



link to the full interview with Patricia Volk on NPR's Fresh Air

something for mom...


No matter how you slice it I love Gwyneth Paltrow's GOOP, it's always enlightening (well except maybe the ones about how tough it is to get ready for the Oscars... etc..) the food aspect and recipes are great and I AM a fan of The Tracey Anderson Method. Today's post was about a new film called: 'Birth Story' which is the story of Ina May Gaskin & The Farm midwives, which looks fantastic. I think if you are pregnant or want to have a baby, this is a wonderful movie that is delightful and full of joy. (click here to see the full story on GOOP including a link to a clip of the film)

Everyone's birthing journey is different and really the biggest event in your life. It's important that you take the precautions to get the knowledge for that day to go as closely as you want it to go as possible. It's best to know the in's and out's, what can go right and what can go wrong. Who you want to listen to and who you don't and the most important part... who you want in that room with you while you are giving birth!

I have known people who were so scared they didn't want to know what was going to go on in there, but it should be the opposite, you WANT to know what could happen so that you know your answer to the question, in case it arises. And even if you are hell-bent on a C-section, it's okay to know the other side and take a look and see if you maybe CAN do it and give it a try before you choose a C-section.

There is a great Q&A with the director, Mary Wigmore Reynolds, and one of my favorite questions is:

Q: What was it about her message and work that resonated with you and made you want to make the documentary? 
A: Her first lesson is that our bodies are built to have children--I love the fact that her most radical lesson is so simple. She reminds us that it’s a natural physiological process and women have been doing it for quite some time! We don’t have to be afraid, especially when we have knowledgeable, compassionate people supporting us.
We wanted to make a film that celebrates birth and we wanted to show the midwife model of care, so people can actually see more or less first hand and be inspired by the work these great women do. Even in the most complicated births (and there are a couple in our film), they are calm, smart and supportive – truly heroic. The hope is that Birth Story can be useful to anyone caring for pregnant women - doctors, childbirth educators, doulas and families--perhaps it could inspire more collaboration with midwives among all of these important groups. Most of all I hope it is helpful to people like me – who might be anxious about giving birth and are eager to see positive stories about women’s bodies.

I am looking forward to the film even IF my kids are older.. I'm sure it will be a film for everyone!

click here for a link to the full story on GOOP

5.09.2013

NPR/Bangladesh: Fast Fashion, let's talk about this...

factory collapse in Bangladesh

It's been a few years since I have spoken about his on my blog, but today I had to pull over on the road while listening to this interview.. it's SO interesting, and I wish I had written this book! If you are having a hard time with understanding why my prices are so high, Elizabeth Cline, who wrote the book 'Overdressed - The Shockingly High Price of Cheap Clothing' has clarified everything for you. In her conversation with Terry Gross at NPR (click here to get the full interview) she discusses the fast fashion cycle, how it works and why it really should no longer work, why we need to wake up and realize how this cheap clothing is happening. This story comes to the forefront because of the tragedy in Bangladesh, where over 700 workers were killed while working in clothing factories. And because of which Disney has closed it's operations in Bangladesh - people are saying that this may be the end of Fast Fashion, or at least the beginning of the end.

We all have a part in this because, let's be honest, we've all bought that cheap t-shirt. Even if you haven't, that t-shirt with your kids school logo on it was probably made in one of those factories. This interview does a good job of telling the whole story, linking all of the problems from human issues to environmental issues (and I think that in Elizabeth Cline's book it is made completely clear!). In my lifetime in the fashion business I am completely aware of these issues and I know that they are true, it's also why the collections in my store are NOT from this world. I only work with people I trust, who work closely with their factories and it's about being a part of a family and working together to make a nice product for the correct price, and paying people correctly for their work.

The industry as a whole is working on being accountable for their product, and it will be very interesting to see what that looks like, maybe a kind of rating (as in the food industry) or a tracking system to show where your garment goes in it's production process. Where you could walk into a store and know from the tag that it is fair-trade or living-wage clothing. One of the most startling things I learned in this interview is that there are no longer quotas on imported garments. When I worked in the Fashion industry I remember the quotas used to 'cap' the amount of garments that could come into the country. Since these quotas were dropped in 2005, it correlates to when most of the factories in New York City and Los Angeles became obsolete and started to close down. They could not compete with the cheap labor in China and Bangladesh and other places.

There is also the environmental issue. It doesn't take a huge imagination to realize that the dyes used in clothing is a HUGE polluter of rivers and lakes. When I worked in Italy I was in Biella, where many of the top yarn producers are located. Biella is located in the foothills of the Swiss Mountains. They were located there because the water there is cleanest, as it runs down to Florence, etc. the water becomes more polluted and the fabrics and yarns produced there are of a lower quality, and as you go down to the south of Italy, even more... cheap. It's tragic but this is just the way it was set up and has been used for a very, VERY long time, and I am pretty sure that this is probably the first time you have heard it described this way.

It wasn't always this way, in the 1950's - 100% of clothing was produced in the United States, then by the 1990's it became about 50%. Today 2% of our clothing is made in the USA, this is all due to trade liberalization. When asked if Mrs. Cline thought that this would be the turning point in the cheap labor/fast fashion cycle, thankfully her answer is yes. She feels that the cycle has started, the conversation is there and there is a hope that this is all going to come to an end.

hear the full interview with Elizabeth Cline by Terry Gross on NPR (5/2/13)
read even more here - in The Nation - The Case for Ethical Fashion by Elizabeth Cline