9.13.2011

my kind of tiger mom!


Towards the end of the summer I was counting the days when school was going to start again, it didn't help that it was supposed to start one week and then we had that darn hurricane which pushed the start date back a week... so there we were in limbo for an additional week, lot's of plans for working and there we were figuring out MORE activities for the kids... don't get me wrong I LoVE to hang out with my kids, and since both my husband and myself work from home we hang out with them a LOT, so after a summer of pandering to all the crazy whims that come up, I am completely ready to get back down to a schedule and get my butt back to work!

My friend sent me a link to this article in the Wall Street Journal and I laughed until I cried, I sent it to some other friends and they laughed until they cried too... so I wanted to let you in on this delightfully articulated article that will make you laugh until you cry, I hope!

click here for link to A Long Summer for Weary Tiger Mothers - by Samantha Bee

9.12.2011

jess brown and bottega veneta


Jess Brown's handmade dolls are near and dear to the hearts of little girls everywhere, but did you know that she is also a favorite of the gorgeous Italian womens clothing and accessories label Bottega Veneta! Yes, indeed! Bottega Veneta asked Jess to make life size dolls for their flagship store windows and they turned out amazing... she even managed to make accessories and bags in their signature shapes.

h-e-l-l-o dollies!

jess working on her dolls in her studio
NYC window of Bottega Veneta


jess with her life size dolls


visit her website to see the complete slideshow
click here to find her amazing dolls on nonchalant mom

9.11.2011

ad in small magazine...


I just made this ad for small magazine and it looks so cute I had to share it with you! My son always want's everything to have him all over it and lately since most everything comes in Franny's size he doesn't get very much to photograph, so I made sure to cover my bases with this ad...

I love SMALL magazine!
click here to see - the new issue will be out soon!

9.09.2011

Emily Ulmer fans...


I just got an email from Emily Ulmer about her very special Christmas Card package, and even if you are in NYC you can take advantage... she will be coming to the East Coast next week so book your place asap!

here's the details:

- A two hour photo session (your choice of location)
- 50 flat cards plus envelopes (
heavy card stock- choose from a selection of designs)
- 15 high resolution digital files (to make high quality prints)
  Total Price: $450

Folded cards available for an additional $25. Additional digital files and prints available for purchase separately.


And, as a special offer, I am offering a 10% discount if you book your session by September 15th.


I don't know about you but I'm booking my spot!


Visit her website here for more information

9.07.2011

7 things every mom should do before the school year starts



The folks at the O blog has asked a few bloggers what they like to do before the school year starts, and when they asked ME I was kind of stumped... I wish I could have had a 'huddle' with 'design mom' about the whole subject. My first response was sort of superficial (and a bit of a fashion hound approach), it is to check my kids closet and make sure I take out all of their beaten down summer clothes and replace them with some shiny new gems so that they are sparkling for the first day of school! I can't help it but it's really more fun dressing them than it is myself. So if their drawers are stocked with things I like, it's not a problem!

I loved all of the suggestions and they are helpful, so take a look and get ready!

click here for full story on the O blog

Austin, TX - summer vacation

State Capital in Austin, TX

It's not as if we weren't warned, everyone said "are you crazy to go to Austin in August?!" including a few people who LIVE there... but we were dying to go and see the place, because we have heard so much about it. It was pretty easy to book our locations because we were probably the only people going on vacation to Austin! It was hot HOT hot! we managed to be there on the 60 - 67th day of over 100 degree temperatures. We decided to stay at two different places so that we could get a feel for the area, and one happened to have one of those twirly pool slides which was perfection!




For the first few days we stayed at Lakeway Resort and Spa - even people that live in Texas who I talked to had never heard of it... I'm honestly not sure where I found it, but it turned out to be a great spot! The rooms were fine, nothing special, just basic, but the pool and outdoor area was terrific! No crowds, no saving seats necessary and we met two wonderful couples, with kids, and we all had fun together (they were both living in Austin!).


this image and above is Barton Springs

Next we stayed at the W in central Austin. A friend was showing us around a bit so I felt like we got a very good feel for the area, it felt a lot like a hot Minneapolis to me, super nice people, music, theater, arts... great food (well, that part was better than the Minneapolis I remember). It was hard not to spend a lot of time at the pool even at the W because of the heat (a perfect time for a long game of Scrabble in the shade!). We made a day of it at Barton Springs, which was delightfully refreshing and also Krause Springs which was a bit like Jurassic Park. The cool water of these springs made for a great way to beat the heat.

Nana (my mother in law) was adamant about going to see the Alamo, so we went down to San Antonio for a sweltering day, it's a beautiful city as well.  We were pleasantly surprised by the history and the size of the city. My husband and I spent a lot of time looking at neighborhoods in Austin just in case we might want to move there one day... you never know what's in store for you right!!??

look how low Lake Travis was... someone said 40 ft?

9.04.2011

lem lem... back to school... for me!?

lem lem Fall 2012 collection

I know that you are all concerned with back packs and lunch boxes, tennis shoes and rubber boots, but I just thought you 'might' want to take a moment to check out something for yourself... from Lem Lem! I am really crazy about this new collection and while I want to take every piece... then you wouldn't get any! so go ahead and dig in... then I will too!

gojo easy top

mera scarf
Lem Lem is not the typical collection that would come to mind for Fall, but they came up with a doozy... They readied their fine looms with the finest of Italian merino yarns and the result is an amazing Fall collection that is soft and cozy, delightfully lofty, and filled with deep rich colors that only Lem Lem can spin off their neon brights. Some of the scarves create an almost denim look when they warp the looms with cotton and then the weft is merino, the result is a deep slightly more structured look (this is the mera scarf). And don't be afraid of the percentage of acrylic, it's the neon thread, you can't get that neon color with natural thread.

azmera scarf

ayana scoop top

They approached their woven pieces with the feel of a knitwear; think sweaters, vests, coats and shawls! Each with their distinct color combination's which are rich with warmth and sophistication. Our model is wearing silk/cashmere underpinnings by Lutz & Patmos, but these pieces look perfect with just about anything (even a t-shirt!).

langano smock

bernere blanket wrap, worn as scarf


click here to see more of the lem lem collection at Nonchalantmom

ssshhh... don't tell anyone!


I know it's a 'family' weekend and all but I can't wait until tuesday to get back to WORK and blogging and all that... so I am taking a quiet moment, everyone is outside and they still think I am making the banana bread. I cranked up the music (found a nice mix via T magazine - spin city - pretty kooky but doing the trick) and taking a moment to unwind. I don't know about you but our kids were supposed to be back in school LAST week, but due to Irene they are starting Tuesday, that false start somehow threw our family for a LOOP! I have collections rolling in each week and my husband has a show coming up in Houston, TX so he is painting his butt off in his studio... and then the kids are home, they have had enough of summer, they can't wait to see their friends again at school and the bickering has started between two kids that usually get along like best friends!


To remedy the situation I took out our tent last week, we put it up in the back yard and it gave the kids a bit of a distraction while they kitted it out with their toys, sleeping bags, cranked up the battery-less flash light, books to read, it was all set! Since my husband and I are ALREADY exhausted we decided to take turns sleeping in the tent with the kids so at least someone got a good night's sleep. It was a great idea in the end and led to barrels of fun, telling stories and playing games with flashlights. While my husband and I exchanged text messages after they went to sleep, texting has turned into a love letter writing for the two of us and I don't know about him but some how that little phone gives us a minute to thank each other, give each other ideas, and just basically be nice to each other... I don't know what we would do with out it! (god, does this mean we don't know how to communicate!?... who cares.. this works!)

I took a moment to flash through some of my favorite blogs, T Magazine, Bloesem, Pretty Mommy, etc.. and found that most everyone is 'on vacation' for one reason or another so I don't feel so bad... see you soon and have a great Labor Day weekend!

I'm looking forward to TUESDAY!



8.31.2011

Hurricane Irene



Just a quick note to say that we are all safe and sound here at Nonchalant Mom. Yes, there were some scary moments during the storm, but we have emerged for the most part in good condition. I just wanted all of you to know that we are keeping up with your purchase orders and shipping seems normal right now. We're working hard, even if everything isn't 100% yet ! Thanks for your patience and kind words of concern and support !

8.27.2011

hello long time no blog... right!?

kit+lili on the ironing board, lem lem on the hook in my office, nico nico behind me....

Oh! I am SO behind... our house looks like a photo studio, clothing draped everywhere... photo shoots every morning (when the light is good) and then afternoons spent photographing flats, then all night long entering data and ironing... this is the fun/not so fun part of Nonchalant Mom! I love it and I hate it! But I have to say that it's been more exciting than ever with terrific results on the photo shoots, the coolest collections I have seen in years! (BRAvO amazing designers!) and it's all GREAT!

Then came IRENE... now we spend our days listening to The Weather Channel and wondering if we should board up the house! We decided not to... so I will photograph the aftermath for you, we are just hoping that #2 (our guesthouse) will hold up to the pounding rain and wind... uff da!

ESP no1

ESP no1

ESP no1

nico nico

nico nico

nico nico

In the meantime feast your eyes on our fun photos and check out the collections on Nonchalant Mom, they look great and I hope that you like them... we are about 50% in on the Fall collections right now with kit+lili just arriving, nico nico, the introduction of ESP no. 1, Makie, Lucky Fish, and for women... Lem Lem, yes it's here! I couldn't get anyone to model for me as the Hurricane is taking everyones time, so next week I will have some photos for you to see. For the time being, you can see everything flat on the website by clicking here! (it's sO-O-O-O-o GORGEOUS, it's like couture really, I am amazed at the craftsmanship, the weaving, the textures and the airy lightness of everything!

AND amidst all of this we took a vacation last week to Austin, TX (perhaps this is what put me behind!!). We are in LOVE with Austin but in HATE with the heat! It was craziness and I have never felt something like that before... we practically stayed in the pool the entire time (that's why my kids have such a nice tan... I just couldn't keep enough sunblock on them!!-re-applying every hour.. it was crazy!). But I will give a full Austin report (including the best pools in town!) when I get my life back...

I will be back soon!... Sorry I've been away so long!

love - carina


nico nico

kit+lili

kit+lili

kit+lili

visit nonchalantmom here!

8.19.2011

new FALL 2011 collections just arrived!

ESP no.1

We just got a couple of my favorite collections for the Fall season, new to Nonchalantmom is ESP no.1, which focuses mostly on the best fitting jeans I have seen for kids... and then it also happens to have some of the best knitwear too! It's all made in the USA, jeans, t's and the knitwear is made by a small knitting group in the midwest - beautifully made at that! Easy for kids with bright and delightful colors that will make your kids jump for joy!



We also received a fresh batch of LUCKY FISH... I know you all go crazy for it and this particular grouping we pulled together is one of my favorites, I love each and every one of them! so visit Nonchalant Mom now for your favorite back to school clothes!


shop NONCHALANTMOM by clicking here

8.17.2011

interview: Monica Patel of Two collection


When I met Monica I had an instant feeling that that she was very talented and that she would be a friend as well as someone who's collection I am crazy about! Monica is one half of 'two', a collection of beautiful caftans that you can absolutely live your life in! They make you feel and look fantastic, they are practical, easy to care for AND they look great... all the time! In talking to Monica I realized that this is exactly what she was looking to create. I thought it would be nice for you all to get to know Monica a bit, because I KNOW that you all LOVE her caftans! (for one thing I can't seem to keep them in stock!)




Carina: To start with, I have to ask you because I use both ways on my website, what is the difference between a kaftan and a caftan?

Monica: It's a toss up, Seems you could use both according to your mood. Kaftan is a Persian word and has a more ethnic touch to it and Caftan with a c seems to be the French version!  Both are used universally..

C: Now, because I think it's such a fantastic story, tell us about how you got the idea for 'two', where it all started, I think there is a wedding involved right!?
M: YES!
My wedding really kickstarted the collaboration we had been talking about doing for years! 

Our wedding was in a gorgeous location near Portofino-Paraggi In Liguria.
When it came to deciding what the guests should wear I  daydreamed about my Indian aunts and cousins wearing their gorgeous sarees. Just something unpredictable and I think fascinating to see out of context!

The way it realized itself, it's an image I will never forget!

Piola my creative partner who helped me get started with Two was herself inspired to do a similar thing at her wedding in Rio. I sent her several sarees for her to play with. She ended up wearing a fabulous dress by a great Brazilian designer, Maria Bonita. Drop dead gorgeous. and had made all the kids dresses and her post wedding loungewear  of the sarees for post lounge wear. Piola looked stunning in them and I knew this was a match made in heaven. She is incredible with details and I adore her, even when she cooks, the onions are minced perfectly..!

At that moment I knew we had to do it. It felt right to me.
My goal is to modernize the textiles and find a way to make it wearable for someone's daily life, make it chic and push it to the next level , always keeping in mind, comfort and wearability is key.

The sarees themselves inspire us!


C: Tell us about the name: Two - I have a problem writing it, because I never know weather to capitalize it or not, I really just want to use your logo each time I write it because I love it so much, did you make it?
M: I wanted to design something with a handmade ( imperfect but perfect) feel that I would still like in the long run!

Yes!  the logo is lowercase but in an email i capitalize the T so it doesn't get lost among the too's and two's! I find it suits us..... we're happy..!

We came up with the name to represent mother and child and the  collaboration between us.
We want to eventually make items for both..in a design studio curated way.

C: How are you changing the world with your caftans?

M: First of all, I am flipping out on how much I am learning about sarees. I have always been in awe of them, the draping, the colors, just beautiful.

The part I love is that we are helping to save a tradition by turning it into something wearable for modern day. It's so satisfying to have that knowledge as its such an enormous part of Indian culture.
There are villages that depend on the future of handwoven and handmade sarees.. I wanted to make wearable items that can actually help keep a tradition alive, and make my customers happy.

Our goal was to make an item that lasts season after season, unique, special and so comfy you can't NOT wear it.


C: Tell us about the fabric, I think the sarees you choose are fantastic! We want to know more about them...

M: Most of the sarees are individual in weight, style, design
we design each dress/caftan according to how each sari drapes. 

I like to work with natural fibers that are super soft and wearable. Sarees come with a good amount of starch so I always prewash and treat them to get them soft. 

Now my 2 yr old toddler, Henri recognizes a sari.
He'll see me washing the fabrics and up and say, "Mommy, Sari?" 
it's the cutest thing.

This season we are testing out all types of fabric primarily handwoven and some prints. I am excited to go to India to pick out my own textiles face to face next season, as the past two years I have been sourcing from home...so I could be with the kiddies

C: Can I come with you!?

C: If you put you and your partner together I think you guys have lived all over, how did this inspire you?

M: Piola is a mix like me-she's half Spanish and half Brazilian, I am half Italian and Indian and it's almost like having two separate worlds, plus the one you are living in. I think it has allowed us to be exposed to each other cultures and learn about them at a faster pace. really hands on and gives you that curiosity and love for traditions and culture.


C: When I met you, you were about to leave on a vacation that I wanted to go with you on... it sounded great... how was Puglia, Italy in June?
M: Puglia was great. June was quiet and relaxing, we went with the kids and stayed in a residence called Masseria Alchimia owned by a Swiss German woman who fell in love with Italy years back. 
She's lived in Puglia for a while now and even owned a Trulli.

Caroline sold the Trulli and bought a Masseria and did a great job renovating it into a home with several apartments. One great thing about it, was having a kitchen to cook for the kids and room to roam. it reminded me of a Barbie kitchenette from the 70's. The property is surrounded by OLD old  Olive trees. There is a latteria, farm around the corner with ricotta and fresh cheeses..
Everything is White washed . My husband was ready to move there & the sea has beautiful tones of green and blues.

What i love is seeing the old mixed with the new, we were walking through Ostuni and there was a beautiful piazza with modern chairs everywhere and classical music (think cinema paradiso) playing. Just the juxtaposition of the old and new, culture with modern. I LOVE THAT. 

The downside,
The trip was a lot about being in the car to the beach to the hotel, to towns, I think with a baby and a toddler I would be happiest with a market on the corner and a beach front apartment so we could reallly RELAX. It was a little tough getting the kids to the historic towns and keeping them happy. 
Their schedules were off and after a while they got used to it. but next time it's beachfront with a mini market.



C: Tell us about where you stayed.